Your Leaders Aren't Changing—And It's Not the Leadership Program's Fault
- Mike Cruz
- Mar 24
- 6 min read
Updated: Mar 26
There's a moment most senior executives recognize but rarely talk about.
You've invested in someone's development. Six-figure program. World-class faculty. They came back energized, armed with new frameworks, full of insights about strategic thinking and transformational leadership.
Then... nothing.
Not because they didn't learn. Not because the program wasn't excellent. But because knowing what great leadership looks like and actually leading differently are two entirely different things.
That gap—between insight and action, between understanding and embodiment—is where millions in development investment disappears every year.
And it's costing more than money.
The CEO who sees it: "We've sent our team through outstanding programs. The content is world-class. But six months later, I'm looking around wondering if we're actually seeing different leaders."
The CFO who measures it: "We're spending millions annually on leadership development. I can measure program attendance and satisfaction scores. What I can't measure—and what the board is starting to ask about—is whether it's actually changing how they lead. or should we allocate the budget to more immediate needs"
The CHRO who lives it: "Our high-potential pipeline keeps stalling at the same point. They go through all the right programs, get exceptional feedback, then struggle when they step into bigger roles. Something's not translating."
The CLO who owns it: "Our post-program evaluations are exceptional—people love the experience. The challenge is translating that into sustained behavioral change back in the real work environment."
The leader who feels it: "The insights hit me hard. I left energized with a completely new framework for strategic thinking. Then I opened my inbox Monday morning and... honestly, it felt like I'd never been there."
The team member who watches it: "My manager came back from that three-week program completely fired up about 'empowering teams' and 'distributed decision-making.' First team meeting back, someone proposed a new approach. I watched them open their mouth to delegate... then take the decision back and tell us exactly how to do it. Same pattern. Different vocabulary."
Here's what nobody wants to admit: this isn't a failure of will. It's not that your leaders don't want to change. It's not that programs aren't valuable.
It's that we've been solving for the wrong thing.
Why transformation doesn't happen in a classroom
The research is uncomfortable but clear:
HEC Paris Executive Education (2024) shows passive listening yields about 10% retention.[1] Learning retention studies demonstrate we lose roughly 70% of new information within 24 hours.[2]
But here's what matters more: UNC Executive Development research (2025) shows effective learning is 75% behavior change and only 25% knowledge transfer.[3]
Most programs are optimized for the 25%.
Not because they're poorly designed. Because that's what programs can do exceptionally well—transfer knowledge at scale, provide frameworks, create peer networks, offer space for strategic thinking.
Programs expand how you think. That's genuinely valuable.
But thinking differently and acting differently require fundamentally different processes. And the path between them? That's not a program. That's a practice.
What creates lasting change
It's not more knowledge. It's not better programs.
It's the practice of applying that knowledge in your actual work—with someone holding the mirror and the accountability.
That practice is coaching.
The International Coaching Federation defines coaching as "partnering with clients in a thought-provoking and creative process that inspires them to maximize their personal and professional potential."[4]
But that doesn't capture why it works when programs don't.
The difference isn't quality. It's mechanism.
A peer-reviewed meta-analysis by De Meuse, Dai, and Lee (2009) found 71-94% of coaching recipients experienced sustained behavioral change.[5] MetrixGlobal's Fortune 500 study documented 788% ROI.[6] ICF/PwC (2024) found 5-7x returns across 64 countries.[7]
Why such radically different outcomes?
Because coaching doesn't try to change you through information. It changes you through a fundamentally different process of inner movement: goal-setting, awareness-raising, commitment, accountability, planning, and action.[8]
Research shows leaders who develop awareness of their internal patterns are 3x more likely to implement sustainable change compared to those focusing solely on behavioral techniques.[9]
Here's what that looks like in practice:
Programs give you the framework for strategic thinking. Coaching helps you see why you keep avoiding the strategic conversation your framework says you need to have.
Programs teach you the principles of delegation. Coaching helps you notice the moment you take the task back because letting go feels like losing control.
Programs show you what transformational leadership looks like. Coaching is there at 3pm on Tuesday when you're about to default to the old pattern—and helps you choose differently.
It's not therapy. It's not mentorship. Coaching is a partnership where clients lead the conversation, co-create actionable plans, and maintain accountability for their goals.
Transformational coaching helps clients recognize where they're stuck, explore self-limiting stories, and experience moments where those stories dissolve to reveal deeper truths.[10]
Where even coaching can't help
Coaching isn't magic. Research shows real limitations:
When the system fights the change. When organizations use the wrong coaching approach - e.g fix a "problem leader" using 1:1 coaching instead of addressing deeper systemic issues, using systemic or team coaching- it often fails. In many cases, the real problem is a breakdown in wider organizational culture.[11] A coach working with a leader to adopt collaborative styles faces barriers when the organizational culture rewards command-and-control approaches.[12]
When the leader isn't ready. Research on coaching effectiveness shows that coaching cannot start if the client is not engaged or interested.[13] You can't coach someone into wanting to change.
When it's disconnected from strategy. A study on the scope of coaching in organizational change identified "lack of systematic approach to coaching engagements as well as its alignment with organizational change needs" as a significant threat to coaching effectiveness.[13]
When resources aren't there. Quality coaching requires significant time investment and qualified coaches, which may not be feasible for all organizations or leaders.
The integration nobody's talking about
Here's what I've learned from coaching executives who've attended the world's best programs:
The question isn't programs OR coaching.
The real question is: are you designing for knowledge acquisition or behavioral transformation?
If it's knowledge—programs deliver. The frameworks are proven. The networks are real. The credentials matter.
If it's transformation—coaching creates the conditions programs cannot. The ongoing partnership. The accountability in actual moments. The work on internal patterns that drive external behavior.
But here's what actually works: understanding that most leaders need both.
Programs provide:
· Frameworks and knowledge
· Peer learning and networks
· Exposure to cutting-edge thinking
· Strategic reflection time
· Shared language for the leadership team
Coaching provides:
· Behavioral embedding and practice
· Accountability in real moments
· Pattern awareness and transformation
· Application to specific context
· Sustained change that colleagues notice
One executive leader told me: "The program gave me the map. Coaching helped me actually walk the terrain."
A CEO I've worked with for a few years put it this way: "The program taught me what great strategy looks like. Your coaching helped me see why I kept avoiding the difficult conversations that strategy required. One gave me the framework. The other gave me access to myself."
What you're actually measuring
We're measuring completion rates and satisfaction scores.
What we should be measuring is: did this investment change how someone leads?
Not what they know. How they act. What their team notices. What decisions they make differently. What conversations they finally have.
The question isn't whether to invest in development.
The question is: are you clear about what different investments actually produce—and willing to design for the outcome you need rather than the one that looks impressive in the board deck?
If you looked at your leadership team's last development investment through the lens of sustained behavior change rather than program completion—would you make the same decision again?
References
[1] Boniwell, I. (2024). "From Passive Learning to Real Change: Inside Ilona Boniwell's Approach to Executive Education." HEC Paris Executive Education.
[2] "How Learning Retention Rates Make or Break Employee Training." (2025). BizLibrary.
[3] "How to Choose the Right Executive Education Partner." (2025). UNC Executive Development.
[4] "About ICF." International Coaching Federation.
[5] De Meuse, K.P., Dai, G., & Lee, R.J. (2009). "Evaluating the effectiveness of executive coaching: Beyond ROI?" Coaching: An International Journal of Theory, Research and Practice, 2(2), 117-134.
[6] Anderson, M.C. (2001). "Executive Briefing: Case Study on the Return on Investment of Executive Coaching." MetrixGlobal LLC.
[7] "Coaching Statistics: The ROI of Coaching in 2024." (2024). International Coaching Federation.
[8] Grant, A.M., et al. (2009); Jones, R.J., et al. (2016). Referenced in: "The effects of executive coaching on behaviors, attitudes, and personal characteristics: a meta-analysis of randomized control trial studies." Frontiers in Psychology (2023).
[9] Robinson, M. & Reb, J. (2021). Cited in: "Deepening Self-Awareness Through Executive Coaching." Minds Open.
[10] "The 3 Levels of Awareness in Transformational Coaching." International Coaching Federation.
[11] "The Challenges and Dangers of Executive Coaching." (2025). Dale Carnegie.
[12] "10 Common Coaching Challenges: Navigating Difficult Scenarios." (2025). ITD World.
[13] "The scope of coaching in the context of organizational change." (2016). Journal of Open Innovation: Technology, Market, and Complexity.
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